5 Ways to Move From Disciplinarian to Coach

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One of my greatest fears upon marrying a “nice guy” was that I would become the “disciplinarian” and he’d become, or rather remain, the “nice guy.” Dang.  It happened! Ironically, the thing that pushed me even farther in to the “disciplinarian” role was  . . . can you guess it? Yup, my old friend, Fear. . . Fear that my kids … Read More

Great parenting doesn’t just happen “in the moment”

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This chart got a lot of great feedback on my Facebook page so I’m sharing it with my community. Parents in my classes are generally very focused on what to do “in the moment” of misbehavior. But I’ve found that there is way more impact when we focus before the moment, to prevent the “moments” from ever happening. I call this “Preventive … Read More