Mistaken Goals of Behavior:
Article from Jane Nelsen on “Breaking the Code” of your child’s behavior
Short video + article on the 4 mistaken goals of behavior from Redirecting Children’s Behavior
Connection:
3 Easy Ways to practice Connection before Correction
How to Raise Emotionally Intelligent Kids: 5 Secrets from Research
Empathy Opens the Door to Problem Solving + what makes it hard for parents to empathize
Modeling:
Don’t Back Talk Back: How parents unwittingly invite power struggles and defiance and what to do instead
Perspective:
I Thought My Child Was Being a Brat. So I treated her that way (oops).
Focus on Solutions:
Focus on Solutions blog and tool card from Positive Discipline
Struggling to Come Up with “the Right” Consequences? Try This!
10 Alternatives to Consequences from Dr. Laura Markham
Kind and Firm:
Blog and Tool Card from Positive Discipline
Article: Scripts to hold limits firmly but not sternly
Great example of K & F parenting from Kelly Bartlett, PD Trainer